Vicarious hypertrophy

vicarious [vaɪ'kɛrɪəs]

adj. （想像别人苦乐情况）间接体验的;替代别人的;代理的;受委托的;

vicar代理人+ious...的→替代的；代理的；发同感的

hypertrophy

n. 肥大, 过度增大, 过度膨胀\\n[医] 肥大

Having some dinner?

吃点晚餐？

Truth and roses have thorns about them.

真理和玫瑰，身上都刺。

Second, if your friends have problems, do not give advice. Ask questions instead, such as What do yo want? How do you feel about it? What are you afraid might happen? They will be able to find answers to any problems themselves, with your support. They

“你需要什么？你对此感觉怎样？你担心会出什么事情？”在你的支持帮助下，无论什么问题他们自己都会找到解决的办法的。他们需要的只是鼓励和信任，相信他们在尽力而为。